All women in a relationship wonder how to keep their guy interested. Men actually think the same thing, just from a different angle. It starts from the first date. Getting off to a good start from the beginning will keep a guy interested.
The first date is the toughest because you're nervous and you wonder what to say and if you're going to say the wrong thing. You hope he likes you and will ask you out again. All the fear and emotions on a first date are normal.
The First Date is the Best Impression
The best way to handle a first date is to be you. Don't wear low cut blouses or shorts. Wear clothes that give you the appearance of the girl next door type. He is nervous too, but he won't show it because of his masculinity. Most women think men want to see a sexy woman.
It's true that men do like to see a sexy woman but not for his partner or wife. Now that you've been seeing him for awhile, you've built a good relationship with him, but you feel that he isn't into you as much as he should be.
Do You and Your Guy Have Common Interests?
Do you both have much in common? Do you both like animals, sports, dancing or fitness? You need a common ground to keep him interested. Start a conversation with him about things he likes and then casually tell him what you like and give him a chance to respond. Some women talk about everything they want and like, but they don't give their guy a chance to voice his opinion.
Make him feel comfortable with you. Make sure your conversations are not boring. Talk about his job. From my experience, men love to talk about their job. You might even offer to pay for dinner once in awhile.
He probably won't let you, but he will love you for offering. He sees the real you and he likes what he sees. Tell him you don't care where you go to eat, as long as you're with him.
Demands Will Cause Him to Run
Are you demanding all his time when he has other things going on in his life? Do not show jealousy as this can ruin a relationship real quick. Some women try to make their guy jealous by not answering his calls and not seeing him when it's time for a date. They make him think they are turning to someone else.
If he feels threatened, he will end the relationship for good. He wants to make decisions for himself. If you want to keep your guy interested in moving forward with your relationship, you must let him do this all on his own without being manipulated.
Look For His True Self
At first he will want to impress you and usually he does this with financial success. He believes making you think he has loads of money will make you like him better. At that point he doesn't realize he isn't showing his true self. So he shows off his financial success by taking you to fancy restaurants, buying you expensive gifts and sending you flowers.
In time, he is struggling financially trying to keep it up. He gets scared and wants to bail out. He doesn't want you to think he's not financially successful because it will hurt his pride and he will get caught lying. He sets his own trap unintentionally and you won't even know it, unless you are honed in to his actions.
By following this advice, you will notice how much he will appreciate and love you. In time he will pop the question all on his own without you being pushy, and before you know it you will get him to say "I Do".
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