What Men Want From A Relationship And How You Can Get Him To Commit

You can get him to commit to a serious relationship if you know what he wants from a relationship.

What is it that blokes are searching for in a relationship? Many females seem to think that this is the million dollar question, and they can never seem to understand what their men want from them or why men don't seem to want commit. But this idea is totally wrong, and it's just complicating things. In actual fact, the majority of men are very simple creatures, and they just need the same basic fundamentals in every relationship they begin.

Here's what males really want in a relationship:

Men want love. True, you may find that weird, but it's true. Men want to care for a woman, and they want her to love him dearly in return. Lots of women actually find it hard to show their true feelings to their man, and instead come across as if they aren't bothered too much either way. Explain to him how much you care and you'll be amazed how hard he tries to hang onto you.

Men want a girl who is adventurous. Many women can behave snobbish at times, or too unapproachable, and this means that men think they have to be careful near them so that they don't cause offense to them. What they would prefer is a woman with a sense of humor, who isn't too worried to sit there and have fun with his friends.

Men need a girl they can trust. This may seem weird, but just think for a minute. If you caught him flirting with another lady down the pub, wouldn't you be mad? He will feel exactly the same way if you do that. Let's not deny it, just as many girls as men are disloyal and untrustworthy, and so many men are paranoid and get angry easily. So make sure he can rely on you. He will be more open to committing to a relationship if the trust works both ways.

Men want a beautiful woman. While some girls may despair at this, and accuse guys of being shallow, men do have a point. Remember that they are not all insisting on a catwalk model for a girlfriend. What they actually need is a woman who cares for her looks and is always prepared to make an effort. Men want a good-looking girlfriend on their arm. It makes them feel confident.

Men want a lady who knows how to be feminine. This means he wants a woman who is gentle, kind, caring and well mannered. Although girls are quite within their rights to eat too fast, drink beer, burp and fart, this sort of behavior is not at all attractive, and he by no means has to deal with it!

Men want an exciting girl between the sheets. Men, contrary to what you may hear, are not usually that adventurous in bed. The reason for that is, while of course they want to try new things, they feel that the girl might be surprised or disgusted at his fantasies. So why not provide the initiative and do something incredible next time you're in the sack together? He'll adore you for it!

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