How to Win Your Man - The Real Secret to Getting Him to Want You

The common headlines you'll read in various women's magazines about how to win your man are something like, "10 Tips for the Hottest Sex," "Make Him Want You with These Tricks to do in Bed," "Win His Heart by Being Dirty," and others similar to that. And while these articles make for great bathroom reading material, plus adding a little knowledge that you may not have known, they really aren't the secret to getting him to want you.

Heck, getting a guy to want you doesn't even happen just because you look hot or even because you treat him like many recommend...by being a b^!ch. Granted, looking great and being playfully mean may capture his interest, but the desire will wane over time if the real characteristics he is looking for in you aren't there. In other words, eventually the hormones stop dictating his actions and his feelings soon take over.

The thing is that winning over a guy may start with the little things like being gorgeous, acting cute, playing to his ego, etc., but "sealing the deal" and putting your heel print in his heart requires much more. And it's a lot more than those magazines often allude to.

If you want to know how to win your man, you're going to need to know the REAL secret to getting him to want you. That means it time to put down the magazines and read this...

Once a guy gets past the over-active hormone phase of his attraction to you, then it comes down to how he actually feels about you. And no matter how good you are in bed or how nice you are to him, that won't get him to feel what he needs to feel in order for you to win him over.

To know how to win your man, it is important to first understand how he thinks. Then the secret is to take the right action to help support that thought process and turn it into your key to success in making him want you.

The three main factors in how a man thinks are:

• He has a sense of purpose in life and he needs to find what that sense of purpose is - If you want to get him to want you, then help him find that purpose. You wouldn't want to necessarily tell him what to do and how to do it, but more so guide him on a path that will help him make his own discovery of that purpose.


• He doesn't want to be with a woman who will drag him down or hold him back - Support and encourage your man to achieve his goals and purpose. If he feels like you're there to help him instead of hinder him, not only will gladly want you along for the journey, he'll enthusiastically invite you to come along for the ride.


• Get to know the real him - Your man wants you to want to get to know the real him. He wants you to genuinely care for who he really is; not for whom you want him to be, what he can do for you, or the like. It's a fine line to get there, but you'll want to take right action and make all of the right moves that show him that the real him is what you do care about.

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