I Want Him To Commit To Me! What Should I Do Now?

You are really happy to be dating a wonderful guy. But now, you hope to bring the relationship to the next level. You are ready to commit and you want him to commit to you too. Unfortunately, you are not very sure if he is willing to do so.

Are you trying to figure out how to win a man's loyalty? Without a doubt, commitment can be a very emotional issue in a relationship. Nine out of ten women are happy to commit when they fall in love. However, some men simply flee when they see this word.

So how can you make him commit to the relationship?

Unfortunately, there is no way you can force a person to do something he does not want to do. But don't worry! There is still hope!

Although you cannot control what he does, you can always control what you do. First, you need to let him know clearly that what you are looking for is a committed relationship. Don't try to give him a subtle hint. Most men are clueless and they probably won't catch the hint. Some men may even pretend not to catch it.

During the early stages of your relationship, make sure you don't sleep with him!

Please do not get the wrong idea. Withholding sex is not meant to be a strategy to make him commit. Instead, it is a way to gain his respect for you. It is also a good way to tell him that you are looking for a more serious relationship.

Men are definitely looking at different criteria when it comes to a one night stand and a serious relationship. For a one night stand, men are looking for women who are easy to get to bed. For a serious relationship, men are looking for women who are harder to get.

No matter how much you like a guy, never sleep with him on the first date. If you slept with him on the very first date, he may think that this is what you do every time even if it is not true. You certainly don't want to give him this impression if you are looking for a committed relationship.

Men Are Clueless

As mentioned above, men are clueless. Therefore, it is important to be direct. If you want to be in a committed relationship with him, just tell him about it. Let him know your feelings.

Men don't like to play the guessing game. He doesn't want to guess what you are thinking. By telling him about your feelings, he will appreciate it. If he is a man worthy of your love, he will commit. If he doesn't want to commit, he is probably not the right man for you anyway. This can be a good thing. At least, you can stop wasting time dating a man who will never be in a serious relationship with you.