Is The Man In Your Life Confusing You?

Is the man in your life sending you mixed signals? Is he hot one moment and cold the next? Is he giving off vibes that he wants to have a relationship with you but the next minute you think you are going crazy? Well, welcome to the world of men who do not know what they really want. You may feel that you are on a roller coaster ride with the amount of times that you find yourself going up and down with their emotions. One minute he is telling you that he cares about you and that he has feelings for you. The next minute he is acting as if he can't get away from you fast enough. You are now left wondering what you did wrong.

With all the confused feelings building up inside of you, you feel as if you are losing your mind. You may even be in love with this person, but they are not giving you any concrete notions of what they want or desire from you and the relationship. If you are in love with him it hurts even more when he is not being straight with you. He may call you all the time then one day the phone calls starts to come in sporadically. It can leave you more than confused. Now you are bewildered. Men like these are not necessarily playing a game. Rather, they are confused in their heads and they wouldn't even know how to write their feelings down on paper if they were asked to. No one would blame you if you decide to put an end to the roller coaster ride. You deserve a stable life, not one that is always out of sorts. He needs to get his life together before he comes into your life and confuse you.

Granted, there maybe many reasons why this man is giving mixed signals. Maybe he really wants to end it but doesn't know how. You don't need someone in your life who cannot be honest with you. You need someone in your life that is going to be honest and open about their feelings for you. Living in perpetual confusion is not a healthy place to be. He should honestly let you know that he no longer wants to be with you and give you the opportunity to move on with your life. Sometimes his motives for not letting you go can also be a very selfish one. He does not want you but he doesn't want you going to anyone else either. Regardless of his motives, you should always be the one directing you life. Never subconsciously or consciously invite people into your life who would want to wreak havoc on your feelings.

There will come a time when you are no longer willing to put up with his indecisiveness. It is now time for you to come off that roller-coaster ride that you are on. It can be pointed out that you went on that ride willingly with him. While that maybe so, when you love someone you are willing to be patient and work with that individual. But after awhile it is understandable if you have had enough. The other individual is not making any decisive moves to be with you. You are now the one that has to control of your life and decide where you want to go and what you want to do. Having someone put your life in disarray is not acceptable, you can do that on your own. Maybe you need to walk away in order for the other person to make up their minds. Sometimes when people are creating havoc in your lives it is because you are right there with them. The best way to regain leadership over your life is to remove yourself from the one that is causing you confusion. Maybe you are also confused, but two confused individuals can't be unconfused together. You will only add twice the confusion to your lives. So you would need to be the one to initiate the separation of your lives so that you can figure out what it is you desire for yourself and to regain sanity in your life.

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