Monday, June 18, 2012

Does He Want to Be More Than Friends? Signs He Wants a Serious Relationship

The first few weeks of dating is what I call the "blurry" stage. Unless a guy tells you, you really don't know if he sees you as someone he can just pass the time with or a woman he can be committed to. During this stage of the relationship, guys are usually trying to figure out whether or not you are girlfriend material. Yes, they actually want to know if you will pass the test. There are two types of women that men like to avoid (in general)- drama queens and high-maintenance chicks. So, if you don't belong to any of these two categories and the guy is being extra nice to you, how will you know that he would like to stick around a little longer?

Here are 5 Signs He Wants a Serious Relationship With You:

1.) He calls you often and he would not let the day pass without checking on you.

He tells you about his day and he is interested with yours too. When a guy is serious with you, it wouldn't matter if he lives in a place where the signal is bad. He will find a way how to communicate with you. If he makes the extra effort just to talk to you then it means he is really into you and he wants to remind you all the time that he is there for you.

2.) He tells you about his childhood, family, plans for the future, hopes and fears.

A guy who only sees you as a casual will not open up to you unless he sees you as a potential partner in life. Once you get a man to open up about his deepest secrets it means that he has already established a strong emotional connection with you. He trusts you enough that he doesn't care if he becomes emotionally vulnerable in front of you. If your man tells you about his dreams, it somehow means that he wants you to be part of it.

Another sign that he sees you in his future is if he uses the phrase "our kids". I bet that's going to tickle every bone in your body! If he says "I hope our kids take after you" it means that he sees it happening someday.

3.) He takes you to his friend's wedding.

This does not only mean that he wants the world to know how proud he is of you but he wants to share a very special occasion with you. Watching a close male friend walk down the aisle is a meaningful occasion for men, believe it or not. And if he wants to share that with you, it can only mean that he is serious about your relationship and yes he wants to be more than friends. If your partner is pretty excited that you are coming with him at the wedding it is most likely because he sees himself tying the knot with you someday.

4.) He makes the effort to know you.

If a guy is serious with you, he is going to pay attention to everything that you say and that includes the part where you said you don't like Carnations. He is going to go the extra mile to know every bit of information about you, your likes, interest and hobbies. He may even talk to your friends to get an idea how to surprise you.

5.) He gave you a title.

I think this is one of the most evident signs that he wants a serious relationship with you. He is going to give you a title- his woman, his girl, his lady or his girlfriend if you have a place in his life and in his heart.

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